Russell Brand admitted to spending a week at a centre for sexual addiction in Philadelphia.

Russell Brand admitted to spending a week at a centre for sexual addiction in Philadelphia. And earlier this year, relationship counselling service Relate said there had been a huge increase in the number of cases concerning sexual compulsive behaviour. Sex therapists would argue it is a real addiction with serious consequencesBut others in psychiatry and psychotherapy argue it is not comparable to substance addiction and should not be classed as such Now Lord Laidlaw, 65, says he has been fighting the "disease" for the whole of his adult life. So are so-called sex addicts suffering from an illness or just making excuses for being unfaithful?
It's a very serious addiction, says Paula Hall, who runs a group therapy course for "sex addicts" in Warwickshire, and it's believed about one in 20 people suffer from it. Although not a chemical addiction like alcohol or heroin, it's a "process addiction" like gambling, she says, with a biochemical element linked to the release of dopamine in the brain. "It's a compulsive need to seek out and follow a certain type of sexual behaviour. That behaviour varies but it's basically an anaesthetising behaviour, something you are doing in order to avoid dealing with something else.
"It's a coping mechanism and it's totally and entirely out of control. You are continuing to pursue it in spite of the consequences, like losing your job, your status, your wife and your health." It's not really about sex. It's driven by shame Addicts are usually men and they are of any age, she says, and from any background. The behaviour ranges from viewing online porn for a few hours a day, which is usually a starting point and then escalates, to visiting prostitutes at every opportunity. "It's a way of escaping from low self-esteem, feelings of anger and insecurity. It's not really about sex. It's driven by shame. "You feel about yourself and one way to stop feeling bad about yourself is to do something nice, but afterwards you feel even worse about yourself."